Remembering Our Loved Ones and God’s Will

Jesus claims his family – today is not a feast day but it’s a perfect illustration

Greetings on this the Memorial of Saint Thomas Aquinas, Priest and Doctor of the Church
Readings: Hebrews 10:1-10; Psalm 40:2, 4ab, 7-8a, 10, 11; Mark 3:31-35

Family

But he said to them in reply, “Who are my mother and my brothers?” And looking around at those seated in the circle he said, “Here are my mother and my brothers. For whoever does the will of God is my brother and sister and mother.”

Jesus, Mary and Joseph

Consecrated

We have been consecrated through the offering of the Body of Jesus Christ once for all.

Consecrated Life

The state of consecrated life is thus one way of experiencing a “more intimate” consecration, rooted in Baptism and dedicated totally to God. In the consecrated life, Christ’s faithful, moved by the Holy Spirit, propose to follow Christ more nearly, to give themselves to God who is loved above all and, pursuing the perfection of charity in the service of the Kingdom, to signify and proclaim in the Church the glory of the world to come. Source: Catechism of the Catholic Church 916.

Family

Remembering

Lately I have been assigned to preside over many funerals. Four this week alone.

It is in these moments people express their initial or deepest reflection about the deceased depending on circumstances. Sometimes the remembrances are amazingly beautiful and sometimes that are shockingly stark. As is often the case, it takes a little time and prayer to bring forward the memories stunned into silence by the death of the loved one.

But the one thing in common is the message of family. He was/She was/They were family. From the deepest urges of the heart an attempt to remember the good the deceased has done. Using different language than today’s gospel, I always encourage people to remember the ways in which he/she/they did the will of the Father.

Jesus claims us as family. Jesus remembers the good we have done in fulfilling the Father’s will to love one another as we love ourselves. He remembers. He loves. He claims.

Going Forward

Let us in small and big ways, remember love, remember family and remember the good God has done.

Sacred Readings full text: https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/012825.cfm

Peace be with you,
Deacon Gerry

2 thoughts on “Remembering Our Loved Ones and God’s Will

  1. God Bless you with Wisdom and Grace during these sacred events that bring family members together.

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